Last night as I was with Clare, it was really hard. It seemed to me as if she was either peacefully sleeping on a new dose of pain meds or vigorously thrashing about in her bed. There was really no in between during the time I was there. (Clark said that tonight was the same). It may be that any type of stimulation is compounding her reactions. The only time that I can read with her is right after she has had medication. During her manic times, we have tried holding her hand, rubbing her feet, singing to her, and talking to her. Nothing has worked to soothe her except for the next round of medication. The nurse warned us that things may get worse before they get better.
At this point it is really emotionally taxing. We may have need for friends and family to take short turns in "being there" for Clare, so that Kris (especially) and the rest of us can take a break without feeling that we are abandoning Clare. One of our focuses should be to stay healthy and strong so that we can be there for Clare to assist in her future therapy and to help as she returns to her home. Please check with Kris, Clark, or I before visiting. We don't want to overwhelm Clare as her brain tries to heal itself.
Kris will be having surgery on his wrist tomorrow. He decided to go through the surgery after getting a second opinion today. His dad will be coming up to be with him.
Please all...continue in your prayers. Clare, Kris and our families continue to need them.
I do not know this lovely couple but I have been following the incredible story. Ever since the accident Kris and Clare have been in all our prayers. It is truly inspiring to see God's hand in all that has happened! I have read of miracle after miracle taking place for this young couple, I hope that many more will take place! This young coulpe are amazing examples of being strong and courageous. We will continue to pray for the best!!
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